At the moment, I am trying to keep my calendar open and be prepared to drop everything, pack quickly and travel to Michigan for the birth of my first grandchild. We plan to drive since the timing is unknown and it is still hurricane season which can make airline reservations stressful. It will take us about a day and a half to arrive, with a one night stop on the way, so while we won’t make it for a hospital visit, we will be there pretty quick. I am ok not getting to the hospital and leaving that time for parents and baby.
Becoming a grandmother and watching your daughter become a mother is an interesting and emotional experience and I plan to take things as they come. I also plan to let her lead the way in how much help she wants. We have discussed this a lot and I think it is best to give her time after the birth to see how it all feels with a newborn in the house. We are open to anything, even staying at a hotel if that is easier on all.
But, the main thing is getting a chance to hold that sweet girl and start a loving and life long relationship. I plan to soak it all in and never forget this special time for our family.